Yes this will be my year. Not to worry. USE this tool for judging how relationships will endure it is VERY accurate.

This can also be used for judging friends as well.

fortuneangel.com/Match1.htm

chinese astrology is based on the lunar calender thus phases of the moon shift somewhat throughout the year and are not strictly according to month but roughly so. Some dragon days can exist in May in various years according to the lunar cycle of that year.

Oh no, there are so much I don't know... I do this to really help my understanding. This is just a hobby of mine after all. I'm still a beginner, so even if I'm not 100% correct, don't hold it against me! >_<

Earth Snake (Ji Si)
Fire Rabbit (Ding Mao)
Metal Sheep (Xin Mi)
Fire Rooster (Ding You)

Ah, it seems you lack water element as well; there's not a drop of water anywhere... the only element that really helps you here is the Earth element in your year pillar, your mom, and the rooster in your hour pillar which represents your children but also a sibling. The reason that the hot summer earth you're sitting on isn't helping you is because it's a hot summer earth; earth is too hot for it to support you. There's no output element; for Xin metal, output is water; because output represents your ability to express yourself, and because you lack that, you might not come off to people as "being smart" at least at first. This doesn't mean you're not smart; Rabbit and Sheep excel at school and they're very good at research and things, but you just can't express your feelings well to the other party to make them understand you. Words don't come easy to you when you want to express yourself.

However, you're very attractive to the opposite sex. You have fire everywhere; they're all men in your life. Too many is not good usually because it denotes possible divorces unless they marry late, but it says you need to have at least three or four "real" lovers in life. You might not like the attention though because you were born out of season (metal's season is fall), and There's not enough of your element or the element that helps you out. In fact, the rabbit and the sheep are in trine, and they produce even more wood element (wealth), feeding into more fire, making you even weaker. Men = too much = problem for you. I'd say you'd need to be careful around men because it's not the right kind of fire; ding fire is the heated fire, it's good for Yang metal people because the fire produces swords from the iron ore, but it's not good for Xin metal because what happens when you throw a diamond ring into the furnace? Its shine is gone forever. That's essentially what men do to you... but if you wait for the right moment, you can handle the heat, or so to say, because the right kind of a man is in your chart, just hidden. He also may have been in your life relatively early (Yang fire hidden in snake in the year pillar)

Now you're Xin metal or yin metal. Yin metal is your diamonds, rings, jewelry, etc. They're very set in their ways, and they tend to be pretty competitive as well as being well above average in terms of their looks unless afflicted (it's in their nature, because you know jewelry needs to be "exceptional" to catch the eye and be bought). This also makes you stubborn on things you "know" you're right on, and makes it difficult for you to accept other people's advice (I have a Xin metal for a father, and believe me... it's hard).

ascendant is important because it is your future; it's your children, and for some elements it is very very important. You were born in evening time, when the metal element is strongest; this helps you out a lot, although being born in the dead of night might have been better, say the hour of pig or rat because it would have cooled down your chart a lot better and give you that "output" element, and it would have controlled all that excess heat in your chart.

For example, Bing fire (yang fire) people should be born in the morning to afternoon for them to be attractive; Bing fire is the sun; sun is the most powerful during... daytime. Ding fire (yin fire) people should be born in the night because they're like the moon. If they're born during the day, it's like being a candle light during daytime; it's sad and pitiful. But if they're born at night; they light up the darkness, and people look to that light. As a xin metal, had you been born during afternoon, the chart would have been too hot; not good. You would have melted. Although it's not the best time to be born looking at your chart, it's still better to be born in the cooler evening than it is for you to be born in the middle of the day.

I bet you're not the type that gets fat; your body will burn the excess fat "water" out of your body, but this also means that your reproductive organs are not as strong as you hope (water rules that area). I'd definitely watch out of diseases related with excretion systems like the kidney, bladder, etc., as well as reproductive system. They're your weakness. The excess fire = watch your heart and blood system as well. People with too much fire may die from heart attacks; too much heat in the heart, you see.

It seems like your 10 year luck cycle goes from summer --> fall --> winter. Summer's not great for you; those were your early years; men entered your life too early. Your focus was on the opposite sex rather than school and their attention was on you as well. This probably made you popular among the boys, and subject of jealousy among the girls; but the sad thing is, too much is worse than having not enough. I don't know your age, but if your summer is over, you'll enter fall, probably around your 30's; that's when things get better; you enter fall, which is your season. Men will still be plentiful, but you'll have better handle on them because you yourself is stronger. I'd also wait until then to get married, that is if you're not married already because you'll be able to handle the man, the children, and the finances better.

I don't know... did any of this make sense? I have too much of excess output element, so I talk... too much. ;)

Are you talking about the month?

I don't have your hour, so this is what I have of you:

Year: Wood Ox
Month: Metal Snake
Day: Fire Sheep

... well, there is that clash of the snake and dog... if you want to fit it in like that... but no, you were born in metal snake month, as a strong ding fire daymaster...

uh, forget what I said above; I seemed to have gotten your date wrong somehow, so the analysis is completely wrong. I'm embarrassed to say that, but I have no clue why I got that result... I may have gotten date wrong somewhere... sorry about that. :p