so you'd say +5 is good then?

how do know who's a good match for me. i'm a goat/cancer. do i seek younger or older men? do they need to be only pisces & scoropio? help!

You know, you don't have to believe anything at all. Really. Just go with your gut. Ok? There will always be people who find something wrong or question EVERYthing.
THIS is what I suggest to those people. Just do what you think is best ok? I don't see this as a personal attack against me or my beliefs at all. I have been studying astrology for OVER 35 years. The chart I have found and there are others exactly like it, provides a VERY accurate thumbnail sketch for compatibility. A litmus test. This is the thing. I get requests from people saying my sign is x and I want to know if I am compatible with y. I suggest to everyone use the chart I have linked to in this thread. I am NOT telling you to use it. I am not telling you to USE it either. It's your choice.
I also will not defend it's use or attack it either. So please no more questions about this is bogus that is fake. OK? Just because it's ENTERTAINMENT folks. It entertains me to look beyond the obvious to categorize human behavior and then predict personality types and define them. Astrology is the means I accomplish this. It dosen't matter to me ONE wit or iota what ANYONE else thinks or not. I hope I am clear and this avoids anyone else questioning this. If you have a problem with this you are asked to just go away and think your inner nature is safe from scrutiny ok?

how do know who's a good match for me. i'm a goat/cancer. do i seek younger or older men? do they need to be only pisces & scoropio? help!
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Just shows you how reliable the chart is. Yes I have found it to be very accurate. It is a great tool for compatibility and can have many uses not just love relationships. It also is very good because I have found that people who are supposed to be very good companions in a cursory way are VERY incompatible.
For instance Suzanne White is making a LOT of hay promoting her understanding of east/west astrology based on combining the east and west signs and finding compatibility based on that. Not only have I found her work to be extremely flawed but also dangerous. A few people I am supposed to be compatible" with are in fact -3. So we cannot rely on a cursory compatibility based on some flavor of the month. At best Suzanne White is too cursory to consider with any kind of accuracy. In fact I have found compatibility with signs she says are bnot my best. She IS however VERY accurate about my enemies. Taurus, Scorpio or Aquarius Tigers and PIGS are definitely the enemy. She is a rather distasteful Scorpio Tiger with a REALLY bad attitude unless you worship at her feet. LOL I know better than that and also VERY much encourage EVERYone to use this chart rather than say have nothing to do with someone because they were born in the year of the pig for instance.
All SuzaNNE White has really done is point out who my astrological enemies are. She is one of them. Thanks for letting me know who my enemies are Suzanne.
I'm sorry I wanted to just say you're welcome and I just did LOL but I also want to point out that friends and enemies are very easy to predict with this chart, AND VERY ACCURATELY much more so than any east west astrology combination. Or you cannot just say that someone is incompatible based on their year of birth.
Suzanne White just wants to sell books and sell expensive astrological charts without predicting what we really want to know, who we get along with and who we do not. With this chart we can. And put the astrologers out of business LOL which is my real goal to bring this information to the general public so YOU can find the real truth without relying on any GURU, me included and especially not overpriced snake oil astrologers like White and others who are merely trying to make a LOT of money. For nothing you can't find out for yourselves.

+ 8 My Rolfer, Sacral-Cranial

+7 The Tribe member profile I first stumbled across. There are no co-incidents.

+3 Student I teach 26 years.

+1 yoga teacher

+1 Friend (far apart in distance but close in heart) for 43 years

-1, -1, -3 friends that were, and ended well down the well. Key word: acceptance.

Love makes the world go round. You are dating so you are still in the checking each other out for

Well, one thing for sure... your relationship (marriage or dating ) will never last unless you both are in it! I believe in the maxim that action speaks louder than words. What people show is more real than what people say.

Use the compatibility chart for best results. I even found that a Gemini Tiger is compatible with me being a leo serpent. ANYthing is possible. The REAL reason I am posting this compatibility chart is because so many astrologers will say rat and horse cannot get along it's a nightmare etc etc and so and just check the chart see what you find. There is a place for EVERY relationship which shows compatibility and you should NEVER rely on basic compatibility terms because a LOT of times it is true and a LOT of times it isn't. This chart will go beyond the basics and show true compatibility.

www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/Ma...htm

Wow! Rat dating a Horse. Won't say that it definitely will not work. But you guys have to put a lot more effort to make a relationship works, a lot more compromise between you guys. I would suggest finding someone who's compatible with you. You may love your horse now, but when tension arise, things might blow up. Me (rat) and my mom (horse) fought a lot when i was young. Now i'm older, a lot more effort to compromise and shut my mouth when i dont' like what she's saying. Good luck to you though...=D

compatibility is there may make it work.

I got a +13 for cassandra calogera AND she's on MySpace with me LOL> She's a Gemini Fire Tiger and I'm a Leo water Serpent and it's true love LOL. So anything is possible! You will have to look long and hard to find true love but its something when you do. Good thing this month because we are in a fire tiger month and thats what she is. Being a snake I can really use the luck.

I've heard that the hour is what you want to be. My hour is yang wood dragon so that means I want to be a man who marches to the beat of his own drums which sounds more like me than anything else I've heard.

However, it's not as important as year, day and month since these three currently affect your attitude, outlook and way you interact with people.

You could meet one guy who has a leo sun virgo moon and like him but another leo sun virgo moon could be more arrogant or sour.
This is affected by chinese astrology from my research on it.